I came to these conclusions tonight about arguments:
- An argument will never be over something stupid because if it is worth arguing about, it means something to a member or members of the party present.
- Arguments usually involve emotions, in which it makes the situation even harder when it is a loved one involved because you don't have time to think about what you are going to say, it just comes out and in most cases, not in the form that you really mean or meant to say.
- Arguments leads to distance. In previous experiences, certain topics of arguments are not to be brought up again, unless you want to argue again.
- Arguments are never easy. You can always argue that the sky is blue, but how many times do you argue over something we know is a fact?
- Final conclusion: I am not very good with arguments. I try and use both my heart and brain at once, but it usually leads to me being a little over dramatic, leaning towards the usage of my heart. I got to learn to accept that I don't know everything and there will be things that will come up that I will never understand (even though you try and try to understand). You just have to listen because sometimes all the other party needs is to left it off his/her chest to feel a little better for themselves and then if they ask for your opinion, give it to them.
The whole reason this topic came up tonight is because, just a while ago Tiffany and I argued about a common topic (not stating what it is because it is no one's business, but ours) and I just spent the past hour or so thinking about it. If you are thinking that Tiffany and I are not together, that is not the case or love each other even less, that is not the case either. I guess what I am trying to say is that, "I don't always have the right words to say" and if you are reading this, you probably know who this is for.
I don't want "anything" to change in my life right now, except for maybe Convergys, but that is a totally different story all together. I love the direction it is going in and finally accepting the thought about my future. All I have to say, this is the girl I love:
